[user not found] wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 3:28 pmPsychologytoday.com she should look for someone that does CBT
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[user not found] wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 3:28 pmPsychologytoday.com she should look for someone that does CBT
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Tue Oct 10, 2017 6:40 pm My guess would be that Chris took some time off because he has read the dialogue on this page 1,345 times and decided to spend some of his free time doing something besides beating a horse to death.
Thanks for that link. I need to find somebody myself.[user not found] wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 3:28 pmPsychologytoday.com she should look for someone that does CBT
What type of job does she have? A lot of companies have employee assistance programs as part of their benefits that can help with the search, and may provide free/discounted sessions and/or requirements that the therapist see her within a certain timeframe.razr390 wrote:We will discuss scheduling tonight or tomorrow night.[user not found] wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 3:21 pm Good. She should get on someone's schedule now. A couple weeks waiting list is common (the Mrs caps her wait list at 8 weeks. She maxed it out within two weeks of opening.)
When we had issues, we found that going to see our own therapists made all the difference we needed.[user not found] wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 4:12 pmhttps://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cogniti ... al_therapy
FWIW - for couples therapy to really work, both parties need their OWN therapists too.
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Tue Oct 10, 2017 6:40 pm My guess would be that Chris took some time off because he has read the dialogue on this page 1,345 times and decided to spend some of his free time doing something besides beating a horse to death.
Small company that barely has an hr department. I can have her look but I doubt she has that sort of thingCalvinball wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 4:19 pmWhat type of job does she have? A lot of companies have employee assistance programs as part of their benefits that can help with the search, and may provide free/discounted sessions and/or requirements that the therapist see her within a certain timeframe.razr390 wrote: We will discuss scheduling tonight or tomorrow night.
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Desertbreh wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
I thought she worked for chewy.com? Or is that before you moved?razr390 wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 4:53 pmSmall company that barely has an hr department. I can have her look but I doubt she has that sort of thingCalvinball wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 4:19 pm
What type of job does she have? A lot of companies have employee assistance programs as part of their benefits that can help with the search, and may provide free/discounted sessions and/or requirements that the therapist see her within a certain timeframe.
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Before we moved.
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
Denial ain’t just a river in Egypt.
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
Same reason I'd never take psych meds: don't want to lose/change my identity. I wish people liked me, but I'm not going to change myself for everyone else. I realize that it's irrational and a professional obstacle. Oh well.[user not found] wrote:I mean, at least you admit it?
I like you.troyguitar wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 10:18 pmSame reason I'd never take psych meds: don't want to lose/change my identity. I wish people liked me, but I'm not going to change myself for everyone else. I realize that it's irrational and a professional obstacle. Oh well.[user not found] wrote:
I mean, at least you admit it?
I have yet to meet you in person. But aside from a few negative tirades on this forum I dont see any issue with you.troyguitar wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 10:18 pmSame reason I'd never take psych meds: don't want to lose/change my identity. I wish people liked me, but I'm not going to change myself for everyone else. I realize that it's irrational and a professional obstacle. Oh well.[user not found] wrote:
I mean, at least you admit it?
This is my life daily. Some things need to wait. Somethings never get done, and some things always get done instantly.razr390 wrote:So, it’s been about 6 months since I moved out of my house and relocated to the DC Metro area with my girlfriend.
Aside from the usual getting used to living on my own, and getting used to living with another person, who also happens to be my long term girlfriend (this is a learn every day situation), I have some other challenges that I’ve noticed.
I feel overwhelmed, pretty much. Not with life or what’s going on in it, but rather, just with proper time management in regard to daily routines. I work a 37.5 hour work week, but in Corporate Security it becomes close to 40-45 every week.
That aside, I always feel like I have so many things I could do, but so little time to do these things. I end up thinking about what thing I want to do first, and end up wasting more time in the process.
Have any of you been through this before? Last weekend was a pretty sweet departure from that because my girlfriend and I (after a decent fight) decided to visit the Udvar Hazy Air & Space museum, and on Sunday I went to Clifton to drive and chill with TK.
What I really want to know is how can I somehow slow down time and enjoy the moment? Some times I feel like my mind races in every which way.
I agree. I believe at one point or another most of us have had a disagreement.[user not found] wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 11:35 pmTroy’s a good human, a little weird just like all of us. We all have our quirks.Barnes93cb wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 11:21 pm
I have yet to meet you in person. But aside from a few negative tirades on this forum I dont see any issue with you.
D Griff wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 11:14 pmI like you.troyguitar wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 10:18 pm Same reason I'd never take psych meds: don't want to lose/change my identity. I wish people liked me, but I'm not going to change myself for everyone else. I realize that it's irrational and a professional obstacle. Oh well.
I'm not the worst, just far from good atwap wrote:
Several of us, myself included, have publicly said more than once that we like you. Hell, we learned recently that you sometimes hang with DPlac IRL, so he obviously likes you a lot. Why do you insist on keeping up this facade that you're unliked by everybody?
I have this to a certain extent. I tend to get talked over or downright ignored in social situations when not with close friends.troyguitar wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 11:53 pmI'm not the worst, just far from good atwap wrote:
Several of us, myself included, have publicly said more than once that we like you. Hell, we learned recently that you sometimes hang with DPlac IRL, so he obviously likes you a lot. Why do you insist on keeping up this facade that you're unliked by everybody?selling myself or interacting with people in any way. I don't get invited to anything or given free shit
style, or job interviews/offers, etc. In a group setting, it's near impossible to actually get a word in and it's usually an unpopular sentiment if anyone does listen. I'm the human equivalent of a flyover state. I'm not Iran, but nobody is rushing out to visit either.
AGREED.[user not found] wrote: ↑Wed Jun 13, 2018 10:01 amI think you'd benefit most in social situations not from changing who you are but by raising your emotional intelligence, which can be done through therapy/training yourself to pay attention to social cues.troyguitar wrote: ↑Tue Jun 12, 2018 11:53 pm I'm not the worst, just far from good atselling myself or interacting with people in any way. I don't get invited to anything or given free shit
style, or job interviews/offers, etc. In a group setting, it's near impossible to actually get a word in and it's usually an unpopular sentiment if anyone does listen. I'm the human equivalent of a flyover state. I'm not Iran, but nobody is rushing out to visit either.
You're definitely not unliked by everyone. You just have a conversational/information delivery style that's distinctly you.
When I see your posts on Vortex, I'll go "this sounds like Troy" and then I look over and realize its you.![]()
wap wrote: ↑Wed Jun 13, 2018 12:34 pmAGREED.[user not found] wrote: ↑Wed Jun 13, 2018 10:01 am
I think you'd benefit most in social situations not from changing who you are but by raising your emotional intelligence, which can be done through therapy/training yourself to pay attention to social cues.
You're definitely not unliked by everyone. You just have a conversational/information delivery style that's distinctly you.
When I see your posts on Vortex, I'll go "this sounds like Troy" and then I look over and realize its you.![]()
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.