I wouldn't really call it that much of an
but I see the point and believe in positive outcome of that. so I had some
girl chronicles so to speak, hence why I never spoke about this before.
time
Here's what happened.
Few days before Xmas eve, I matched with this Indian girl on bumble, well she liked me and I accepted without checking the location
but w/e (she lives 50 miles away from me in Baltimore County)
Bumble has top spotify artist section where it showed some EDM artists on my profile, along with hiphop. After some talking, she asked me lets meet at a tiesto concert at Echostage (concert hall in DC where they show electronic and occasionally rap concerts, close to
part of DC), but I was planning to be in NY at the time, so we didn't meet. Then she went "well im going to above & beyond there again" and I went hell yes on that, so I did.
I try to be not like
and wait until she texts, as I was in line, she texted me am I here etc. etc.
Got entered, squeezed thru some EDM fuckboi's and boom finally met her. Holded hands as we went upstairs to the bar and get drinks, then she introduced couple of her friends that she came with, but they left us alone. We both eye banged a LOT, like more times than I can count. Needless to say, It was a pretty
night.
She coat checked and I didn't so I was with her on the long line, so it was a good time to start getting to know each other. She walked me out to my car and then she got hers, hugged a bye, gave me a kiss on the cheek and told me text me when you get home.
Since then, we literally texted each other every day, literally non-text days are about 3-4 days total till now.
Then we met again as she visited DC with her friends from Temple Uni., then I met her in Baltimore (lives in Reinsterstown) and then again.
For the time being, we have a lot in common. She's not like a hot bombshell, but I also see her as someone I can spend a lot of time with, considering that we have things in common and attracted to each other.
We didn't see each other that much considering the length of the "relationship" because she grew up in a traditional indian household where she has to be with them on gatherings and whatnot, luckily I can relate, cause I'm also close with my family as some of you know, so some things are non-negotiable no matter how old you are.
So a few days ago, when we were texting, I was trying to see when I can see her next. I also did some derpery on my part, we were gonna meet at Baltimore tonight, but she told me as friends, cause she told me "we didn't talk what we wanted out of bumble". I explained that I am fairly new to dating sites (jumped in last may), so I never really thought about that.
To save myself some time, I explained on how I feel and blah blah blah, and then kind of
and nicely explained what I am trying to achieve off of bumble.
She said, let's be friends for now, and the only reason for that is distance as well as how she has to keep on re-scheduling and that how we both of us get busy with travels, time with friends, time with family, work, etc.
I am mixed
and mixed alright, because one, she wanted to know me more I get that.
I talked to my uncle and his wife, my ex-coworker whose also turkish that I went out to dinner with last night and told me I'm crazy thinking so negative about this, saying "that's what I always do". Same with my uncles wife told me how we were friends before we got together, and now married. So I'm gonna work my way by continue to be friends and proving myself that I'm not some fuckboi and to be a genuinely nice guy that I am. will try to get more bumble girls for the time being, for something casual.