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Yet again, watering down actual rape.
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Tue Dec 05, 2017 1:58 pm At the risk of being sucked into your wedding planner decorative vortex, that is kind of cute.
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yes..... and i know this sounds like victim blaming but here it goes:[user not found] wrote: ↑Thu Dec 14, 2017 11:47 amThis is the most insidious part. It's very possible he raped that girl. Simply by retelling it the way he did but also trying to "own" it he makes it worse, not better.Sno wrote:Yet again, watering down actual rape.
if hes lying and he did rape that young woman, then she had some responsibility to properly report it if she wanted to hold him accountable for that violation.
I get there are reasons why a woman might not do this, but those are decisions she has to live with as well as part of her healing process.
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I'd take that V card. You have to wear the suspenders .Melon wrote: ↑Thu Dec 14, 2017 10:29 amIn the worst possible way doe.Big Brain Bradley wrote: ↑Thu Dec 14, 2017 10:26 am https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/mor ... 42198.html
"hey guys, look! remember me? I want to be relevant again!"
Man, I'm going to deny having sex with anyone, too much liability.
I'm a virgin
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Mildly relevant: TNY story that "went viral". It is pretty good IMHO, captures empathy on both sides of the equation. Curious on the thoughts of others.
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017 ... cat-person
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017 ... cat-person
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That's why I always went for the older ones.stripethree wrote: ↑Thu Dec 14, 2017 12:28 pm Mildly relevant: TNY story that "went viral". It is pretty good IMHO, captures empathy on both sides of the equation. Curious on the thoughts of others.
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017 ... cat-person
Youngins play games, older women were much more upfront about what they wanted.
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well there is 10 minutes i cant get back, should have listened tostripethree wrote: ↑Thu Dec 14, 2017 12:28 pm Mildly relevant: TNY story that "went viral". It is pretty good IMHO, captures empathy on both sides of the equation. Curious on the thoughts of others.
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017 ... cat-person
People are cunts.
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no doubt, its a cry for attention on his part. Duche.[user not found] wrote: ↑Thu Dec 14, 2017 1:12 pmAnd it seems like she has probably healed from this incident. It happened in college and she spoke about it then and now he brings it up 30 years later? That's douchey.Big Brain Bradley wrote:
yes..... and i know this sounds like victim blaming but here it goes:
if hes lying and he did rape that young woman, then she had some responsibility to properly report it if she wanted to hold him accountable for that violation.
I get there are reasons why a woman might not do this, but those are decisions she has to live with as well as part of her healing process.
It could have happened exactly as he described it in his head and totally different in hers. Very common in criminal cases.
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Yeah most of them violate rule #1 and #2 of TOTD group.
I hadn’t heard about this one yet. Reading up but over all fucking hell, these girls playing victim. Rage.[user not found] wrote: ↑Mon Jan 15, 2018 5:55 pm The Aziz Ansari accusation is a perfect example of
He goes on a date. She goes back to his place. He is creepy to his date but she only gives "non-verbal cues". She never says no. When she says no, he apologizes and gets her a cab to go home.
Two problems here. 1) dont be creepy. 2) If you have an issue, SAY SOMETHING. You don't get to bash a guy for being creepy if you dont tell him AND he HELPS YOU LEAVE. If he in anyway uses power against you, report away. This is a date gone creepy, not a rape.
I had an interesting conversation with a few females that have some relatively justified concerns over a male we all work with recently. None of them felt like it was any good to say anything because “he’s not famous, so what’s it matter.” And all I could think is “well, what does it?”
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Tue Dec 05, 2017 1:58 pm At the risk of being sucked into your wedding planner decorative vortex, that is kind of cute.
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Now they’re gonna use everything as an excuse. It’s stupid.
Whatever doe. It’s a bunch of BS. Takes away legitimacy from the ACTUAL cases of rape/assault.
Someone wants her 15 minutes of fame
Whatever doe. It’s a bunch of BS. Takes away legitimacy from the ACTUAL cases of rape/assault.
Someone wants her 15 minutes of fame
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
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We are at a scandalous state where those that don’t qualify as such are being blown out of proportion at the cost of legitimate incidents being pushed under the rug.[user not found] wrote: ↑Mon Jan 15, 2018 6:12 pmMan that makes me sad. I mean in your industry there are not people like me to solve these problems but I hate to see people (regardless of gender or circumstance) that have been victimized to say :meh:Sno wrote: ↑Mon Jan 15, 2018 6:09 pm
I hadn’t heard about this one yet. Reading up but over all fucking hell, these girls playing victim. Rage.
I had an interesting conversation with a few females that have some relatively justified concerns over a male we all work with recently. None of them felt like it was any good to say anything because “he’s not famous, so what’s it matter.” And all I could think is “well, what does it?”
It has definitely become a witch hunt.
Now all relationships will require contracts ahead of time.
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
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I read about Aziz today.[user not found] wrote: ↑Mon Jan 15, 2018 5:55 pm The Aziz Ansari accusation is a perfect example of
He goes on a date. She goes back to his place. He is creepy to his date but she only gives "non-verbal cues". She never says no. When she says no, he apologizes and gets her a cab to go home.
Two problems here. 1) dont be creepy. 2) If you have an issue, SAY SOMETHING. You don't get to bash a guy for being creepy if you dont tell him AND he HELPS YOU LEAVE. If he in anyway uses power against you, report away. This is a date gone creepy, not a rape.
Perfect example of
She was clearly free to leave at anytime, and did so. He even apologized, according the HER account! How is this wrong?
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Read Aziz Ansari story and a follow-up in NYT.
Sounds like a combination of a bad date, misreading of non verbal cues, and not speaking up enough or giving strong enough cues. I tried not to immediately be put off at the top of the accuser's story since it starts with her being tipsy and that giving her confidence to approach Ansari. To me, that speaks of her putting him on a pedestal as a celeb and expecting some dreamland gentlemanly behavior. Granted, he took some missteps - he should have completely shut down any physical advances after she collects herself in the bathroom and it appears he still tested the waters. He's guilty of being a little creepy and pushy, but not sexual assault IMHO.
I might change my mind if numerous women came forward and said nah, he's a habitual pushy asshole and kept going even after I clearly said "stop" but that doesn't appear to be the case.
Sounds like a combination of a bad date, misreading of non verbal cues, and not speaking up enough or giving strong enough cues. I tried not to immediately be put off at the top of the accuser's story since it starts with her being tipsy and that giving her confidence to approach Ansari. To me, that speaks of her putting him on a pedestal as a celeb and expecting some dreamland gentlemanly behavior. Granted, he took some missteps - he should have completely shut down any physical advances after she collects herself in the bathroom and it appears he still tested the waters. He's guilty of being a little creepy and pushy, but not sexual assault IMHO.
I might change my mind if numerous women came forward and said nah, he's a habitual pushy asshole and kept going even after I clearly said "stop" but that doesn't appear to be the case.
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Not sure what thread to post this in but thought this one was as good as any.
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Jesus Christ that guy is fucked in the head.wap wrote: ↑Fri Jun 01, 2018 11:26 am Not sure what thread to post this in but thought this one was as good as any.
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Like place you wanna raise your kids?KYGTIGuy wrote: ↑Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:05 pmCharlottesville sounds like a fine townwap wrote: ↑Fri Jun 01, 2018 11:26 am Not sure what thread to post this in but thought this one was as good as any.
https://www.yahoo.com/news/congressiona ... 21211.html
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Why that hasn't been shot by some local by now, now that everyone knows who/what he is and what websites he's behind, is beyond me.SAWCE wrote: ↑Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:14 pmJesus Christ that guy is fucked in the head.wap wrote: ↑Fri Jun 01, 2018 11:26 am Not sure what thread to post this in but thought this one was as good as any.
https://www.yahoo.com/news/congressiona ... 21211.html
Duel. Germany only allows it if you apply before their first birthday at the consulate.
My wife isn't a citizen of the US. Germany won't allow that unless you have a very good reason for dual citizenship. She could give up her German citizenship and become a US but we don't want that.