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Yet again, watering down actual rape.
Desertbreh wrote: Tue Dec 05, 2017 1:58 pm At the risk of being sucked into your wedding planner decorative vortex, that is kind of cute.
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[user not found] wrote: Thu Dec 14, 2017 11:47 am
Sno wrote:Yet again, watering down actual rape.
This is the most insidious part. It's very possible he raped that girl. Simply by retelling it the way he did but also trying to "own" it he makes it worse, not better.
yes..... and i know this sounds like victim blaming but here it goes:

if hes lying and he did rape that young woman, then she had some responsibility to properly report it if she wanted to hold him accountable for that violation.

I get there are reasons why a woman might not do this, but those are decisions she has to live with as well as part of her healing process.
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Melon wrote: Thu Dec 14, 2017 10:29 am
Big Brain Bradley wrote: Thu Dec 14, 2017 10:26 am https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/mor ... 42198.html

"hey guys, look! remember me? I want to be relevant again!"
In the worst possible way doe.

Man, I'm going to deny having sex with anyone, too much liability.
I'm a virgin :melon:
I'd take that V card. You have to wear the suspenders :doe:.
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Mildly relevant: TNY story that "went viral". It is pretty good IMHO, captures empathy on both sides of the equation. Curious on the thoughts of others.

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017 ... cat-person
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stripethree wrote: Thu Dec 14, 2017 12:28 pm Mildly relevant: TNY story that "went viral". It is pretty good IMHO, captures empathy on both sides of the equation. Curious on the thoughts of others.

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017 ... cat-person
That's why I always went for the older ones.
Youngins play games, older women were much more upfront about what they wanted.
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Melon wrote: Thu Dec 14, 2017 1:05 pm That's why I always went for the older ones.
Youngins play games, older women were much more upfront about what they wanted.
Generally, I agree. Current and recent past experiences are bucking that trend in some respects. That's prob another topic :doe:.
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stripethree wrote: Thu Dec 14, 2017 12:28 pm Mildly relevant: TNY story that "went viral". It is pretty good IMHO, captures empathy on both sides of the equation. Curious on the thoughts of others.

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017 ... cat-person
well there is 10 minutes i cant get back, should have listened to :melon:

People are cunts.
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[user not found] wrote: Thu Dec 14, 2017 1:12 pm
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yes..... and i know this sounds like victim blaming but here it goes:

if hes lying and he did rape that young woman, then she had some responsibility to properly report it if she wanted to hold him accountable for that violation.

I get there are reasons why a woman might not do this, but those are decisions she has to live with as well as part of her healing process.
And it seems like she has probably healed from this incident. It happened in college and she spoke about it then and now he brings it up 30 years later? That's douchey.

It could have happened exactly as he described it in his head and totally different in hers. Very common in criminal cases.
no doubt, its a cry for attention on his part. Duche.
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Big Brain Bradley wrote: Thu Dec 14, 2017 1:47 pm People are cunts.
Yeah most of them violate rule #1 and #2 of TOTD group.
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[user not found] wrote: Mon Jan 15, 2018 5:55 pm The Aziz Ansari accusation is a perfect example of :wtf:

He goes on a date. She goes back to his place. He is creepy to his date but she only gives "non-verbal cues". She never says no. When she says no, he apologizes and gets her a cab to go home.

Two problems here. 1) dont be creepy. 2) If you have an issue, SAY SOMETHING. You don't get to bash a guy for being creepy if you dont tell him AND he HELPS YOU LEAVE. If he in anyway uses power against you, report away. This is a date gone creepy, not a rape.
I hadn’t heard about this one yet. Reading up but over all fucking hell, these girls playing victim. Rage.

I had an interesting conversation with a few females that have some relatively justified concerns over a male we all work with recently. None of them felt like it was any good to say anything because “he’s not famous, so what’s it matter.” And all I could think is “well, what does it?”
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Now they’re gonna use everything as an excuse. It’s stupid.

Whatever doe. It’s a bunch of BS. Takes away legitimacy from the ACTUAL cases of rape/assault.

Someone wants her 15 minutes of fame
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Desertbreh wrote: Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
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[user not found] wrote: Mon Jan 15, 2018 6:12 pm
Sno wrote: Mon Jan 15, 2018 6:09 pm

I hadn’t heard about this one yet. Reading up but over all fucking hell, these girls playing victim. Rage.

I had an interesting conversation with a few females that have some relatively justified concerns over a male we all work with recently. None of them felt like it was any good to say anything because “he’s not famous, so what’s it matter.” And all I could think is “well, what does it?”
Man that makes me sad. I mean in your industry there are not people like me to solve these problems but I hate to see people (regardless of gender or circumstance) that have been victimized to say :meh:
We are at a scandalous state where those that don’t qualify as such are being blown out of proportion at the cost of legitimate incidents being pushed under the rug.

It has definitely become a witch hunt.

Now all relationships will require contracts ahead of time. :lolgasm:
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Desertbreh wrote: Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
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[user not found] wrote: Mon Jan 15, 2018 5:55 pm The Aziz Ansari accusation is a perfect example of :wtf:

He goes on a date. She goes back to his place. He is creepy to his date but she only gives "non-verbal cues". She never says no. When she says no, he apologizes and gets her a cab to go home.

Two problems here. 1) dont be creepy. 2) If you have an issue, SAY SOMETHING. You don't get to bash a guy for being creepy if you dont tell him AND he HELPS YOU LEAVE. If he in anyway uses power against you, report away. This is a date gone creepy, not a rape.
I read about Aziz today.

Perfect example of :wtf:

She was clearly free to leave at anytime, and did so. He even apologized, according the HER account! How is this wrong?
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Read Aziz Ansari story and a follow-up in NYT.

Sounds like a combination of a bad date, misreading of non verbal cues, and not speaking up enough or giving strong enough cues. I tried not to immediately be put off at the top of the accuser's story since it starts with her being tipsy and that giving her confidence to approach Ansari. To me, that speaks of her putting him on a pedestal as a celeb and expecting some dreamland gentlemanly behavior. Granted, he took some missteps - he should have completely shut down any physical advances after she collects herself in the bathroom and it appears he still tested the waters. He's guilty of being a little creepy and pushy, but not sexual assault IMHO.

I might change my mind if numerous women came forward and said nah, he's a habitual pushy asshole and kept going even after I clearly said "stop" but that doesn't appear to be the case.
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Not sure what thread to post this in but thought this one was as good as any.
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https://www.yahoo.com/news/congressiona ... 21211.html
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wap wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 11:26 am Not sure what thread to post this in but thought this one was as good as any.
:wtf:
https://www.yahoo.com/news/congressiona ... 21211.html
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Charlottesville sounds like a fine town
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wap wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 11:26 am Not sure what thread to post this in but thought this one was as good as any.
:wtf:
https://www.yahoo.com/news/congressiona ... 21211.html
:wtf:
Jesus Christ that guy is fucked in the head.
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KYGTIGuy wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:05 pm
wap wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 11:26 am Not sure what thread to post this in but thought this one was as good as any.
:wtf:
https://www.yahoo.com/news/congressiona ... 21211.html
:wtf:
Charlottesville sounds like a fine town
Like place you wanna raise your kids?
:wap: Where are these mangos?
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wap wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 11:26 am Not sure what thread to post this in but thought this one was as good as any.
:wtf:
https://www.yahoo.com/news/congressiona ... 21211.html
:wtf:
Jesus Christ that guy is fucked in the head.
Why that :jackass: hasn't been shot by some local by now, now that everyone knows who/what he is and what websites he's behind, is beyond me.
:wap: Where are these mangos?
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wap wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:18 pm
KYGTIGuy wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:05 pm

Charlottesville sounds like a fine town
Like place you wanna raise your kids?
They are half German and citizens of Vaterland...
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wap wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:19 pm
SAWCE wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:14 pm

Jesus Christ that guy is fucked in the head.
Why that :jackass: hasn't been shot by some local by now, now that everyone knows who/what he is and what websites he's behind, is beyond me.
DFD trip to Charlottesville?
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KYGTIGuy wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:25 pm
wap wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:18 pm
Like place you wanna raise your kids?
They are half German and citizens of Vaterland...
Really? Interesting. Do they hold duel citizenship or are they just Germans?
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SAWCE wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:25 pm
wap wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:19 pm

Why that :jackass: hasn't been shot by some local by now, now that everyone knows who/what he is and what websites he's behind, is beyond me.
DFD trip to Charlottesville?
There is surely enough firepower on here!
:wap: Where are these mangos?
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wap wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:28 pm
SAWCE wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:25 pm

DFD trip to Charlottesville?
There is surely enough firepower on here!
I was thinking we just bring :crang: and lock the two in a room together until the guy kills himself...
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wap wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:27 pm
KYGTIGuy wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:25 pm

They are half German and citizens of Vaterland...
Really? Interesting. Do they hold duel citizenship or are they just Germans?
Duel. Germany only allows it if you apply before their first birthday at the consulate.

My wife isn't a citizen of the US. Germany won't allow that unless you have a very good reason for dual citizenship. She could give up her German citizenship and become a US but we don't want that.
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