razr390 wrote:My biggest thing is in the past 3-4 years more people have left after not being recognized/promoted/given a raise than have gotten promoted ever (0)
Welcome to every company these days. You must leave to advance. Loyalty is punished, not rewarded. Only morans are loyal.
1 of our team members left to a different department to make more $$$ and whatnot.
Sadly, Corporate Security is not as linear as most other departments. Usually it’s
Level 1: shit pay, lots of work, shit ton of experience (3-5 years minimum)
Security doesn’t “make companies any money” so we are sadly seen as overhead. Advancement usually favors those who can stick out the circumstances and get in early.
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm
DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
Nice! I think that will slowly happen to me once I hit my 1 year threshold at current company. I have not too much experience so once I show I’m “stable” in the job is when i assume others will look at my stuff
Yep. Might take 2 years, but you'll get there soon enough. A year and a half at this place has gone by pretty fast.
Only difference is I’ve slowly become my AVP’s “fixer”. I handle security shit 30% of the time and the other 70% is logistics, events, coordinating meetings, getting him last minute ass saving files, documents, etc.
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm
DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
Send me the results and I can have my wife give you a second opinion. Not sure what she'll say not being able to exam him herself but whatever. Up to you.
Thanks buddy sent you a PM
PM sent
She basically concurs with your vet who is all recs are solid. If you are going to scrooge she said do BP at least.
She basically concurs with your vet who is all recs are solid. If you are going to scrooge she said do BP at least.
If you have any other questions, feel free to ask
He will probably be getting the full troywax wallet rape of testing.
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm
DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
Pic delivery. I bought it a little large assuming it’ll shrink a touch and not show my nipples after I wash it.
You look amazing. Must feel good to see your hard work pay off like that.
Thanks man! It’s been a hell of a journey. Nice to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but I already have my eyes set on the next one coming up. Gonna take two years off to really grow and add some needed size, then come back on stage in 2020 with a good 20-25lbs more muscle than I have for this upcoming show.
MexicanYarisTK wrote: ↑Wed Oct 17, 2018 11:27 pm
I may have a possibility that I’ll be the second guy on dfd with an azn lady friend, maybe... not trying to get my hopes up doe.
Bolt ons or no bolt ons?
All real, no plastic surgery bullshit. She drives an 8th gen Civic that she had since she began college.
Nephew of a a few first gen immigrant on DFD, resident turk, and ex nazi egg lover now driving a middle class mom mobile.
Someone tell me I’m crazy or help me make sense of this.
I started my separation in January. Practically no contact since aside from two conversations. Each time she has been the only thing on my mind for a bit after.
I went to talk on Tuesday night with her. Since I’m moving and we still needed to talk face to face and finish sorting some belongings out.
What I expected to be 30 minutes was 3 hours of great conversation and some laughs. Come to find out she’s still willing to try and work things out. Granted I’m the one who ended it all. But I’m really torn. I’m moving half way across the county tomorrow for four years. And dont know how to handle my feelings. I miss so much about her. But I just don’t know if it’s loneliness. Or if it’s still love. We talked over text this evening. And I wanted it to continue and her not go to bed. The feelings I have are tearing me up.
I’m sure I sound like a little bitch. But I don’t know where to turn.
Barnes93cb wrote: ↑Thu Oct 18, 2018 1:57 am
Someone tell me I’m crazy or help me make sense of this.
I started my separation in January. Practically no contact since aside from two conversations. Each time she has been the only thing on my mind for a bit after.
I went to talk on Tuesday night with her. Since I’m moving and we still needed to talk face to face and finish sorting some belongings out.
What I expected to be 30 minutes was 3 hours of great conversation and some laughs. Come to find out she’s still willing to try and work things out. Granted I’m the one who ended it all. But I’m really torn. I’m moving half way across the county tomorrow for four years. And dont know how to handle my feelings. I miss so much about her. But I just don’t know if it’s loneliness. Or if it’s still love. We talked over text this evening. And I wanted it to continue and her not go to bed. The feelings I have are tearing me up.
I’m sure I sound like a little bitch. But I don’t know where to turn.
Desertbreh wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 3:05 pm
DFD. The forum where everybody makes the same choices and then tells anybody trying to join the club that they are the stupidest motherfucker to ever walk the earth.
Barnes93cb wrote: ↑Thu Oct 18, 2018 1:57 am
Someone tell me I’m crazy or help me make sense of this.
I started my separation in January. Practically no contact since aside from two conversations. Each time she has been the only thing on my mind for a bit after.
I went to talk on Tuesday night with her. Since I’m moving and we still needed to talk face to face and finish sorting some belongings out.
What I expected to be 30 minutes was 3 hours of great conversation and some laughs. Come to find out she’s still willing to try and work things out. Granted I’m the one who ended it all. But I’m really torn. I’m moving half way across the county tomorrow for four years. And dont know how to handle my feelings. I miss so much about her. But I just don’t know if it’s loneliness. Or if it’s still love. We talked over text this evening. And I wanted it to continue and her not go to bed. The feelings I have are tearing me up.
I’m sure I sound like a little bitch. But I don’t know where to turn.
Do what's best for you my man. You wouldn't have ended it if there wasn't a strong reason to do so. Just be sure to remember that in your consideration.