CorvetteWaxer wrote:
Weird being another 3 hours behind most of you guys.
I didn't even bother DFDing when I was in Hawaii. Too much amazing stuff to see over there plus the time difference. We'll still be here when you get back.
CorvetteWaxer wrote:
Weird being another 3 hours behind most of you guys.
It's really still not an "instant booty call" at all. I've been on lots of Tinder dates and only once was a girl down to just go after the date. I declined because she was awful.Sno wrote:For the record, Zilch and I met on match. But that was back when you had to pay to talk to people, so the mentality was at least a little less of “instant booty call.”
Because most dudes would love to see a females goods at random. So some assume it goes both ways. It does not.Barnes93cb wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 12:25 am Ive never understood the concept of sending an unsolicited dick pic. Why would you think someone wants to see that at random?
Jaxper wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 10:24 am I tried out Tinder, with no luck, back before I met my wife. Admittedly, though, I didn't try very hard because I wasn't seriously looking for someone at the time. When I met my wife, we both just happened to be at the same event for friends and it just clicked - right place at the right time kind of thing.
Also, unrelated, my wife and I just put a deposit to hold a dog from the rescue we got Luna. She's getting transported up here for their event on 6/29. Can't wait to add another 4 legged family member!
I had the opposite experience on Tinder. Some girls there were looking to date, while most were down to go out, have some fun, then after. Girls on Bumble seemed more interested in dating, so I used to two concurrently to fulfill both needs. Hell I had a few girls on Tinder that I didn't even need to take out, they just came over after sending a few messages back and forth.D Griff wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 10:05 amIt's really still not an "instant booty call" at all. I've been on lots of Tinder dates and only once was a girl down to just go after the date. I declined because she was awful.Sno wrote:
For the record, Zilch and I met on match. But that was back when you had to pay to talk to people, so the mentality was at least a little less of “instant booty call.”
Because most dudes would love to see a females goods at random. So some assume it goes both ways. It does not.
On the flip side, never really had an issue pulling a chick from a bar when I was single. I think most girls are looking to date on Tinder, males are looking to hook up, so many people wind up dissatisfied. I was sort of in an "up for anything" state of mind and now have been dating the same girl for over two years. She also held out longer on than anyone else I've dated, interestingly.
Must have been the pecs.SAWCE wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:04 amI had the opposite experience on Tinder. Some girls there were looking to date, while most were down to go out, have some fun, then after. Girls on Bumble seemed more interested in dating, so I used to two concurrently to fulfill both needs. Hell I had a few girls on Tinder that I didn't even need to take out, they just came over after sending a few messages back and forth.D Griff wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 10:05 am
It's really still not an "instant booty call" at all. I've been on lots of Tinder dates and only once was a girl down to just go after the date. I declined because she was awful.
On the flip side, never really had an issue pulling a chick from a bar when I was single. I think most girls are looking to date on Tinder, males are looking to hook up, so many people wind up dissatisfied. I was sort of in an "up for anything" state of mind and now have been dating the same girl for over two years. She also held out longer on than anyone else I've dated, interestingly.
I don't know that I ever had any shirtless pics on there. Girls always complained about dudes doing that, so I stayed away from it. Had a few shots of just me, one with me and Ava because girls couldn't resist that, and one or two candid ones with a friend or two where I was easily identifiable.Barnes93cb wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:11 amMust have been the pecs.SAWCE wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:04 am
I had the opposite experience on Tinder. Some girls there were looking to date, while most were down to go out, have some fun, then after. Girls on Bumble seemed more interested in dating, so I used to two concurrently to fulfill both needs. Hell I had a few girls on Tinder that I didn't even need to take out, they just came over after sending a few messages back and forth.
Ill have to get lessons on how to tinder if I ever get on that.SAWCE wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:14 amI don't know that I ever had any shirtless pics on there. Girls always complained about dudes doing that, so I stayed away from it. Had a few shots of just me, one with me and Ava because girls couldn't resist that, and one or two candid ones with a friend or two where I was easily identifiable.
Most girls would actually comment that I was way bigger/taller in person than I looked in pictures..
Wait.. did I miss you and your (ex?)wife separating?Barnes93cb wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:19 amIll have to get lessons on how to tinder if I ever get on that.SAWCE wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:14 am
I don't know that I ever had any shirtless pics on there. Girls always complained about dudes doing that, so I stayed away from it. Had a few shots of just me, one with me and Ava because girls couldn't resist that, and one or two candid ones with a friend or two where I was easily identifiable.
Most girls would actually comment that I was way bigger/taller in person than I looked in pictures..
Dating is still months away so im not worried.
Yessir you did. Ive been separated since January.SAWCE wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:20 amWait.. did I miss you and your (ex?)wife separating?Barnes93cb wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:19 am
Ill have to get lessons on how to tinder if I ever get on that.
Dating is still months away so im not worried.
I could swear I told the forum. I guess not.[user not found] wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:24 amOh dang, I didn't know that either. I knew it was rocky but didn't know that. Sorry buddy.
Sorry to hear that man. Hope you're doing alright.
SAWCE wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:20 amWait.. did I miss you and your (ex?)wife separating?Barnes93cb wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:19 am
Ill have to get lessons on how to tinder if I ever get on that.
Dating is still months away so im not worried.
Interesting. I think it's also relative to location. , don't think it was me though, because I've done pretty well out in the real world with chicks. In my area/circle of people I know quite a few serious relationshits/marriages that resulted from Tinder. I see it as just organic dating. See someone, find them attractive, talk to them, see where it goes. Stuff like OK Cupid that tries to match people based on all these arbitrary factors liked "Do you sleep on your side or your back? " don't make as much sense to me. I liked Tinder for the low time commitment.SAWCE wrote:I had the opposite experience on Tinder. Some girls there were looking to date, while most were down to go out, have some fun, then after. Girls on Bumble seemed more interested in dating, so I used to two concurrently to fulfill both needs. Hell I had a few girls on Tinder that I didn't even need to take out, they just came over after sending a few messages back and forth.D Griff wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 10:05 am It's really still not an "instant booty call" at all. I've been on lots of Tinder dates and only once was a girl down to just go after the date. I declined because she was awful.
On the flip side, never really had an issue pulling a chick from a bar when I was single. I think most girls are looking to date on Tinder, males are looking to hook up, so many people wind up dissatisfied. I was sort of in an "up for anything" state of mind and now have been dating the same girl for over two years. She also held out longer on than anyone else I've dated, interestingly.
[user not found] wrote:Oh dang, I didn't know that either. I knew it was rocky but didn't know that. Sorry buddy.
I'll go out on a limb and say the CFS in that ditch at 4' level ain't very high.[user not found] wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:54 amDepends on how fast it was flowing. You can definitely see there was at least a flow about 4' wide there based on the grass blades being bent over.
Yeah I was gonna say it's probably location specific. I'd hop on while in Seattle or Portland and find the same willingness of girls there as I would here in SD or LA, but when I was in Utah for example it was much more like your experience.D Griff wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:57 amInteresting. I think it's also relative to location. , don't think it was me though, because I've done pretty well out in the real world with chicks. In my area/circle of people I know quite a few serious relationshits/marriages that resulted from Tinder. I see it as just organic dating. See someone, find them attractive, talk to them, see where it goes. Stuff like OK Cupid that tries to match people based on all these arbitrary factors liked "Do you sleep on your side or your back? " don't make as much sense to me. I liked Tinder for the low time commitment.SAWCE wrote:
I had the opposite experience on Tinder. Some girls there were looking to date, while most were down to go out, have some fun, then after. Girls on Bumble seemed more interested in dating, so I used to two concurrently to fulfill both needs. Hell I had a few girls on Tinder that I didn't even need to take out, they just came over after sending a few messages back and forth.
Stop trolling me.[user not found] wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 12:19 pm
Grass blades clearly show the direction of flow and at least how deep it was (if not deeper, but not likely). You have no idea the slope, either.
Open your eyes, motherlicker.
D Griff wrote: ↑Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:58 am[user not found] wrote:
Oh dang, I didn't know that either. I knew it was rocky but didn't know that. Sorry buddy.
Well congrats on being single, Barnes. Live it up. I had a failed engagement back in my early 20s, sometimes we make a wrong choice. Learn from it, move on, life can be better for it.