I read it as the client's friend came to the client's house.[user not found] wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:23 pmWhy did his friend come to a client's house?Irish wrote:I think i got "Straight guilted" today by a gay employee.......
I had gotten a complaint of inappropriate conversation by this guy..... he is a yapper there is no doubt and he is one of those people that tells you his entire sordid life story on the first meeting....... so the client says he did this and that he didnt really come up for air all day.....and requested that I never send him to the house again....
when i finally called him on it he said that the woman made inapropriate comments about him to friend who had dropped by....kept calling him the "homosexual" and the "fairy"....and that she was making everything up because she doesnt like gays.....
it stopped me in my tracks...... and I was forced to give him the benefit of the doubt....but part of me feels like I've been played......
fuq me......
That's the issue to me.
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I originally read it as did. Rereading it I see it how you did.wap wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:12 pmI read it as the client's friend came to the client's house.[user not found] wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:23 pm
Why did his friend come to a client's house?
That's the issue to me.
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I can see how it could be potentially funny...but not so much to me because i need every billable hour I can get and can't afford to lose clients to unneccesary drama....Thedude wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:37 pmComedic plot to satirically comedic and provocative sitcom!Irish wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:03 pm I think i got "Straight guilted" today by a gay employee.......
I had gotten a complaint of inappropriate conversation by this guy..... he is a yapper there is no doubt and he is one of those people that tells you his entire sordid life story on the first meeting....... so the client says he did this and that he didnt really come up for air all day.....and requested that I never send him to the house again....
when i finally called him on it he said that the woman made inapropriate comments about him to friend who had dropped by....kept calling him the "homosexual" and the "fairy"....and that she was making everything up because she doesnt like gays.....
it stopped me in my tracks...... and I was forced to give him the benefit of the doubt....but part of me feels like I've been played......
fuq me......
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I definatley see a statement like that in my future....for now, I erred on the side of cautionTarspin wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:09 pmDid you tell him to stop being such a drama queen?Irish wrote:I think i got "Straight guilted" today by a gay employee.......
I had gotten a complaint of inappropriate conversation by this guy..... he is a yapper there is no doubt and he is one of those people that tells you his entire sordid life story on the first meeting....... so the client says he did this and that he didnt really come up for air all day.....and requested that I never send him to the house again....
when i finally called him on it he said that the woman made inapropriate comments about him to friend who had dropped by....kept calling him the "homosexual" and the "fairy"....and that she was making everything up because she doesnt like gays.....
it stopped me in my tracks...... and I was forced to give him the benefit of the doubt....but part of me feels like I've been played......
fuq me......
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wap wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:12 pmI read it as the client's friend came to the client's house.[user not found] wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:23 pm
Why did his friend come to a client's house?
That's the issue to me.
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http://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-t ... SKBN17U04E
U.S. President Donald Trump said on Thursday a major conflict with North Korea is possible in the standoff over its nuclear and missile programs, but he would prefer a diplomatic outcome to the dispute.
"There is a chance that we could end up having a major, major conflict with North Korea. Absolutely," Trump told Reuters in an Oval Office interview ahead of his 100th day in office on Saturday.
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dubshow wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 10:43 am
http://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-t ... SKBN17U04E
U.S. President Donald Trump said on Thursday a major conflict with North Korea is possible in the standoff over its nuclear and missile programs, but he would prefer a diplomatic outcome to the dispute.
"There is a chance that we could end up having a major, major conflict with North Korea. Absolutely," Trump told Reuters in an Oval Office interview ahead of his 100th day in office on Saturday.
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It's all just words until someone takes action. We've done this before with NK. Usually it's NK throwing the first rocks though.dubshow wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 10:43 am
http://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-t ... SKBN17U04E
U.S. President Donald Trump said on Thursday a major conflict with North Korea is possible in the standoff over its nuclear and missile programs, but he would prefer a diplomatic outcome to the dispute.
"There is a chance that we could end up having a major, major conflict with North Korea. Absolutely," Trump told Reuters in an Oval Office interview ahead of his 100th day in office on Saturday.
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This is wrong. You are right. Also, if you are more concerned about the dog than the woman, sorry but that's not really how it should be.Johnny_P wrote: ↑Thu Apr 13, 2017 11:29 amThat's my thought. Her thought is different, and she thinks we should get married and we'll figure it out anyway, and hey if we don't we can always divorce.
If I marry someone I fully intend on spending the rest of my life with them..... that's kind of the point of the whole thing.
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This is right.
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Some people love drama above all else. Gay men have a special penchant for it, no question. Figure out how to fire him legitimately.Irish wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:03 pm I think i got "Straight guilted" today by a gay employee.......
I had gotten a complaint of inappropriate conversation by this guy..... he is a yapper there is no doubt and he is one of those people that tells you his entire sordid life story on the first meeting....... so the client says he did this and that he didnt really come up for air all day.....and requested that I never send him to the house again....
when i finally called him on it he said that the woman made inapropriate comments about him to friend who had dropped by....kept calling him the "homosexual" and the "fairy"....and that she was making everything up because she doesnt like gays.....
it stopped me in my tracks...... and I was forced to give him the benefit of the doubt....but part of me feels like I've been played......
fuq me......
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Your bosses' wife died?
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Yea.... 34 years old 2 young kids. No medical history of heart disease nothing. Survived by parents and grandparents who are perfectly healthy.
Just one day... got a fever... then hospital ... then icu then that was it. from 100% healthy to underground in 1 week. I have never witnessed anything like it.
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Yea... all of the above mang. She exercised, was good looking, healthy. AZN who live longer than whiteys that croak prematurely as of late.Desertbreh wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 5:20 pmFuck me. Wow. Most shit is playing the percentages right? Don't smoke, don't be obeast, don't snort dat cocaine, get some sleep, get some exercise, etc.
This^^^^^^^^^^^defies all of that. Your boss has got to be in a haze.
Didn't smoke or drink.. no drugs because... well AZN, she had a good job etc. I was in shock for a bit myself.
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Yeah...the hell of it is that he is hands down the most experienced and has the most well rounded skill set of all my caregivers......Desertbreh wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 5:12 pmSome people love drama above all else. Gay men have a special penchant for it, no question. Figure out how to fire him legitimately.Irish wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:03 pm I think i got "Straight guilted" today by a gay employee.......
I had gotten a complaint of inappropriate conversation by this guy..... he is a yapper there is no doubt and he is one of those people that tells you his entire sordid life story on the first meeting....... so the client says he did this and that he didnt really come up for air all day.....and requested that I never send him to the house again....
when i finally called him on it he said that the woman made inapropriate comments about him to friend who had dropped by....kept calling him the "homosexual" and the "fairy"....and that she was making everything up because she doesnt like gays.....
it stopped me in my tracks...... and I was forced to give him the benefit of the doubt....but part of me feels like I've been played......
fuq me......
of course he is also at least somewhat emotionally stunted, immature and certified batshit so......the truth is that I need him right now at least for a few more weeks until I can hire someone else......
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Life can be fragile.....there is a lot that can go wrong notwithstanding the amount of crazy shit some people can overcome........max225 wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 5:23 pmYea... all of the above mang. She exercised, was good looking, healthy. AZN who live longer than whiteys that croak prematurely as of late.Desertbreh wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 5:20 pm
Fuck me. Wow. Most shit is playing the percentages right? Don't smoke, don't be obeast, don't snort dat cocaine, get some sleep, get some exercise, etc.
This^^^^^^^^^^^defies all of that. Your boss has got to be in a haze.
Didn't smoke or drink.. no drugs because... well AZN, she had a good job etc. I was in shock for a bit myself.
I am sorry to hear about this young lady though....and major feels to your boss....
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When I wrote all that I was pretty annoyed at her, and the note about the doggie was just that its an added problem to sort through. Things have been getting better. Still not 100% though. And sex is basically in the NGH camp for the foreseeable future.Desertbreh wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 5:08 pmThis is wrong. You are right. Also, if you are more concerned about the dog than the woman, sorry but that's not really how it should be.Johnny_P wrote: ↑Thu Apr 13, 2017 11:29 am
That's my thought. Her thought is different, and she thinks we should get married and we'll figure it out anyway, and hey if we don't we can always divorce.
If I marry someone I fully intend on spending the rest of my life with them..... that's kind of the point of the whole thing.
That's just the way it goes I guess. IDK.
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Not exactly a direct correlation but of all the people who die on the roads everyday for lesser mistakes than this......it makes you wonder....
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I'm not sure that's the way it goes. Resignation might be a reasonable feeling after 40 years of marriage. It is not acceptable before it starts. You were going to marry her, THEN NOT SO MUCH. Just go to counseling and see what happens. I will tell you STRENUOUSLY that you are under no obligation to compromise on the most important decision you will ever make.Johnny_P wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 5:49 pmWhen I wrote all that I was pretty annoyed at her, and the note about the doggie was just that its an added problem to sort through. Things have been getting better. Still not 100% though. And sex is basically in the NGH camp for the foreseeable future.Desertbreh wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 5:08 pm
This is wrong. You are right. Also, if you are more concerned about the dog than the woman, sorry but that's not really how it should be.
That's just the way it goes I guess. IDK.
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Yes I understand this, hence why nothing happened.Desertbreh wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 8:52 pmI'm not sure that's the way it goes. Resignation might be a reasonable feeling after 40 years of marriage. It is not acceptable before it starts. You were going to marry her, THEN NOT SO MUCH. Just go to counseling and see what happens. I will tell you STRENUOUSLY that you are under no obligation to compromise on the most important decision you will ever make.Johnny_P wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 5:49 pm
When I wrote all that I was pretty annoyed at her, and the note about the doggie was just that its an added problem to sort through. Things have been getting better. Still not 100% though. And sex is basically in the NGH camp for the foreseeable future.
That's just the way it goes I guess. IDK.
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Such knowledge. Incredible advice. 5/7Desertbreh wrote:I'm not sure that's the way it goes. Resignation might be a reasonable feeling after 40 years of marriage. It is not acceptable before it starts. You were going to marry her, THEN NOT SO MUCH. Just go to counseling and see what happens. I will tell you STRENUOUSLY that you are under no obligation to compromise on the most important decision you will ever make.Johnny_P wrote: ↑Fri Apr 28, 2017 5:49 pm
When I wrote all that I was pretty annoyed at her, and the note about the doggie was just that its an added problem to sort through. Things have been getting better. Still not 100% though. And sex is basically in the NGH camp for the foreseeable future.
That's just the way it goes I guess. IDK.
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